So my dad sent me this link to this blog,
go read it http://www.mormonmen-therealreason.blogspot.com/
Okay so as you were reading it, couldn't you pick out a guy to fit that description from your ward?! I sure could. I know exactly those people who ward hop because no one in our ward lives up to their standards...(Hey thats fine, if I don't live up to your standards, I don't want you anyways).
Anyways, point of the blog: Give the 5's and 6's a chance...we(yes we..girls and guys) don't always need our perfect 10 significant other.
(this blog is a come back to this other blog...go check it out...http://www.whymormongirlsstaysingle.com/)
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only 10's should go after 10's, and so on. looks are not everything, they are just the first thing
When you told me about this in the text I was expecting it to be some self centered woman who is just overrun with ideals of "girl power." Instead I have found a dialogue about how uninformed Mormon "boys" are. And let me tell you, it is 100% correct. I, a male, take notice to all of these things as well. And I find it quite entertaining when they are going on so blatently.
Please forgive me for the statement I am about to make, but it is a product of the sheltered lives that most of these young men and boys are raised in.
I, being a convert, was raised in a southern household with different morals and standards: respect, hygiene, responsibility, etiquette, and many of the other things most ladies fawn over from southern men. Now, I do not consider myself an exception to any of the criticism, but I would like to point out how women seem to say they will settle for a 5 or 6 that treats them like angels, yet tend to pick the perfect 10s that give them no respect or what they deserve. So what I am trying to say is that just as much as you angelic like ladies suffer so do we nice guys.
Now, I am 6'2, slender athletic build, blue eyes, and brown/blonde hair(partially balding due to my insistence as a child to wear ball caps and think it was acceptable to wear my hair in a pony tail). I take care of my skin with exfoliants. I shower and use cologne. Daily!!! I workout four days a week, including weight training and running. My apartment, which I share with no one, is always clean, and if it is not then I am usually in the process of cleaning or doing something that requires more of my time. I am a regular at church, unless I am working or out of town. I am a gentleman. Caring, Kind, well spoken, and all the supposedly desired traits. Yet, I am a 27yr old single male. Now, after listing all those things I am, I don't consider myself to be the Don Juan of the South, but would like to think I am somewhat good looking.
So let this be my "cry" for a little help. Relationships are a to way street, and so is dating, and so is meeting people, and so is friendship.
Chuck, Thanks for being so blunt. Your totally right. A lot of girls DO say they will give 5 and 6's a chance and they dont...agreed! I also agree that it all goes both ways.
This was just supposed to be something funny...I thought it was.
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